Community Standards

Creating a safe, respectful, and supportive environment where people can help each other during menstrual emergencies.

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Our Commitment

Effective Date: [INSERT DATE]
Last Updated: [INSERT DATE]

Paddy exists to create a supportive community where people can help each other during menstrual emergencies. These Community Standards outline the behavior we expect from all users to maintain a safe, respectful, and helpful environment.

Company Information:

  • Company: Benri LLC
  • Contact: [TODO: Add community standards contact email]

Respectful Communication

✅ We Encourage:

  • Supportive Language: Kind, encouraging, and helpful communication
  • Clear Coordination: Specific details about meetup locations and timing
  • Gratitude Expression: Thanking helpers and acknowledging kindness
  • Constructive Feedback: Respectful suggestions for improving the community

❌ Not Allowed:

  • Menstrual Shaming: Mocking, shaming, or stigmatizing menstruation
  • Body Shaming: Comments about appearance, weight, or physical characteristics
  • Discriminatory Language: Slurs, hate speech, or discriminatory comments
  • Harassment: Repeated unwanted contact or inappropriate messages
  • Sexual Content: Sexual advances, explicit content, or inappropriate flirtation

Physical Meetup Safety

✅ Safe Meetup Practices:

Public Locations Only: Meet in well-lit, public places with other people around

Recommended Locations:

  • • University student centers or libraries
  • • Coffee shops, cafes, or restaurants
  • • Shopping centers or malls
  • • Hospital or clinic lobbies
  • • Public restrooms in safe buildings

❌ Unsafe Locations:

  • Private residences or apartments
  • Isolated areas (parking lots, empty buildings)
  • Personal vehicles
  • Late night locations (after 10 PM)

🚨 Safety Guidelines:

  • Trust Your Instincts: Cancel any meetup that feels unsafe
  • Bring a Friend: Consider bringing someone with you if possible
  • Share Location: Tell someone where you're going and when you'll return
  • Quick Exchange: Keep meetups brief and focused on the supply exchange
  • Emergency Preparedness: Know how to contact local emergency services

Appropriate Content

✅ Acceptable Content:

  • Supply Requests: Clear descriptions of needed menstrual products
  • Coordination Messages: Logistics for meetups and exchanges
  • Gratitude Posts: Thank you messages and positive feedback
  • Educational Information: Factual health information from credible sources

❌ Prohibited Content:

  • Medical Advice: Diagnosing conditions or providing medical recommendations
  • Graphic Images: Explicit photos of blood, products, or body parts
  • Commercial Spam: Advertising unrelated products or services
  • Personal Information: Sharing private details like addresses, phone numbers, or financial information
  • Off-Topic Content: Content unrelated to menstrual supply sharing

Anti-Harassment Policy

Zero Tolerance for:

  • Persistent Contact: Continuing to message someone who hasn't responded or has asked you to stop
  • Stalking Behavior: Following someone's location or repeatedly requesting their personal information
  • Intimidation: Threats, aggressive language, or attempts to frighten other users
  • Doxxing: Sharing someone's private information without consent
  • Revenge Actions: Retaliating against users who report violations or decline requests

If You Experience Harassment:

  1. Block the User: Use the in-app blocking feature immediately
  2. Report the Behavior: File a report through the app with specific details
  3. Document Evidence: Save screenshots or messages as evidence
  4. Contact Support: Reach out to our team for additional help
  5. Emergency Situations: Contact local authorities if you feel physically threatened

Health and Safety Information

✅ Appropriate Health Sharing:

  • General menstrual health education from reputable sources
  • Personal experiences shared respectfully
  • Resources for professional medical care

❌ Medical Misinformation:

  • Unqualified Advice: Don't diagnose conditions or recommend treatments
  • Dangerous Practices: Don't suggest unsafe or unsterile practices
  • False Claims: Don't spread misinformation about menstrual products or health
  • Alternative Medicine: Don't promote unproven treatments as cures

Health Emergencies:

  • Seek Professional Care: Encourage users to contact healthcare providers for medical concerns
  • Emergency Services: Direct users to call 911 for medical emergencies
  • Platform Limitations: Remind users that Paddy is not a medical service

Authentic Community Use

✅ Genuine Participation:

  • Real Needs: Only request supplies when you genuinely need them
  • Available Help: Only offer to help when you actually have supplies available
  • Honest Communication: Be truthful about your location, availability, and situation

❌ Platform Misuse:

  • Fake Requests: Creating false emergency requests
  • Commercial Exploitation: Using the platform to sell products or services
  • Account Manipulation: Creating multiple accounts or impersonating others
  • Gaming the System: Attempting to exploit matching algorithms or safety features
  • Data Harvesting: Collecting user information for unauthorized purposes

Reporting and Enforcement

How to Report Violations:

In-App Reporting:

  1. Report Button: Use the report feature on user profiles or messages
  2. Specific Details: Provide clear information about the violation
  3. Evidence: Include screenshots or message details when possible
  4. Follow-Up: Our team will investigate within 24 hours

Direct Contact:

  • Email: [TODO: Add safety report email]
  • Safety Hotline: [TODO: Add safety phone number]
  • Emergency: Call 911 for immediate physical threats

Our Response Process:

  1. 24-Hour Review: All reports reviewed within 24 hours
  2. Investigation: Thorough review of reported content and behavior
  3. Action Taken: Appropriate consequences based on violation severity
  4. Follow-Up: Reporter notified of actions taken (when appropriate)

Consequences for Violations

Warning System:

  • First Offense: Warning and education about community standards
  • Second Offense: Temporary suspension (24-48 hours)
  • Third Offense: Extended suspension (1-7 days)
  • Severe/Repeat Violations: Permanent account termination

Immediate Termination:

Some violations result in immediate permanent bans:

  • Physical Threats: Threatening violence or harm
  • Sexual Harassment: Unwanted sexual advances or explicit content
  • Stalking: Following or tracking other users
  • Doxxing: Sharing private information to harm others
  • Hate Speech: Discriminatory attacks on protected characteristics

Appeals Process:

  • Appeal Timeline: 30 days from date of action
  • Appeal Method: Email [TODO: Add appeals email] with detailed explanation
  • Review Process: Independent review by different team members
  • Final Decision: Appeals decision is final

Community Support

Positive Community Building:

  • Welcome New Users: Help newcomers understand how the app works
  • Share Success Stories: Celebrate successful exchanges and community support
  • Provide Feedback: Suggest improvements to make the platform better
  • Mentor Others: Guide other users in safe practices

Mental Health Resources:

If you're struggling with mental health issues related to menstruation or other concerns:

  • Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
  • RAINN Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
  • Local Resources: Contact local mental health services

Special Guidelines for Universities

Campus-Specific Considerations:

  • Campus Safety: Follow your university's safety guidelines
  • Residence Halls: Check dorm policies about visitors
  • Campus Police: Know how to contact campus security
  • Health Centers: Utilize campus health resources when needed

Student Responsibilities:

  • Academic Focus: Don't let app use interfere with studies
  • Respectful Behavior: Maintain standards that reflect well on your institution
  • Emergency Protocols: Follow campus emergency procedures

Updates and Changes

Community Input:

  • Feedback Welcome: We value community input on these standards
  • Regular Reviews: Standards updated based on community needs and safety data
  • Transparency: Changes communicated clearly to all users

Notification of Changes:

  • In-App Notifications: Prominent alerts about standard updates
  • Email Updates: Notifications to registered users about significant changes
  • Community Forum: Discussion space for feedback on proposed changes

Contact Information

Community Standards Team:

  • General Questions: [TODO: Add community standards email]
  • Safety Reports: [TODO: Add safety email]
  • Appeals: [TODO: Add appeals email]
  • Partnership Inquiries: [TODO: Add partnerships email]

Response Times:

  • Safety Reports: Within 2 hours during business hours (7 AM - 9:30 PM local time)
  • General Inquiries: Within 24 hours
  • Appeals: Within 5 business days

Mailing Address:

Benri LLC - Community Standards

2108 N ST STE N

Sacramento, CA 95816

Final Note

These Community Standards exist to protect and support everyone in our community. By using Paddy, you agree to follow these guidelines and help create a safe, respectful environment where people can help each other during times of need.

Remember: When in doubt, choose kindness. Our community works best when everyone looks out for each other.

Thank you for being part of the Paddy community!

Last updated: [INSERT DATE]
Questions? Contact us at [TODO: Add contact email]